20th November 2004, 02:55 AM
20th November 2004, 03:06 AM
Personally, I think how the relationship turns out depends on how both sides perceive the relationship to be like. If you enjoy your partner's company, even though you two are not doing anything, you could be having the time of your life.
I'm sure some people notice that having been with someone for a while, they start to find that they're doing the same thing over and over again, and it starts to get boring. Perhaps these are the times when some doubts might creep in, insecurities might occur, tempers might flare, so on so forth.
I guess to keep a relationship going strong, you'd need to find reasons to keep the interest and the flames burning. I don't think it's just the physical or emotional bond that you have.
Perhaps surprise your partner? Do things out of the ordinary, not because of a special occasion, but just any time you feel like it. Maybe add a personal touch to it? Cards? Flowers? A Back massage? A foot massage? Breakfast in bed? Cook dinner and await your partner's smile and hug in gratitude? I guess the key would be to make that person feel extra special.
20th November 2004, 03:49 AM
20th November 2004, 11:02 AM
20th November 2004, 11:17 AM
'what u really want by ur side is someone who listens .. cares for u and understands u deeply'
uhm uhm, how to start this? it appears to me that if the above is what everyone wants in a r/s, i wonder who is going to give or provide them? not flaming pls.